Being on a treadmill at 5 am is not my idea of a good time. I am not a morning person. Since it is safest for me not to talk to people that early in the morning, I normally peruse the news and LinkedIn.
I am not sure if it was that I am recovering from a nasty cold or the gentle reminder that I should not take the holidays off from the gym, but this morning was not only a little more painful than most, it was also very negative out there.
Scrolling through the articles I kept running across the most negative articles, things sounding similar to:
“X Things to Avoid at All Costs on Your Resume”
“What You Are Doing Wrong On Your Resume”
“Why Your Resume Stinks”
“Why You are Not Getting Hired”
“Why No One Wants to Interview You”
Two days after the holidays and the newsfeed turned all bah-humbug! Geesh!
Job searching in itself can be stressful; add in the holidays and it can really increase the stress factor. Maybe it is just me, but I do not think smack in between the new year and merriment holidays is the time to scare the crap or chastise job seekers.
Let’s keep some of that holiday cheer.
So for anyone who is feeling their hand smacked a little by all the negativity, here are 5 things you are doing right:
- You are trying.
- You have a resume.
- You are not believing all the hype.
- You are looking forward.
- You are seeking the good.
These may not seem like big things, but they are, these can be the most important things anyone can do for success.
It is easy to get discouraged and stop trying. To keep trying takes guts.
There are no absolutes with resumes. If you read every article, compare notes and try to do exactly what each one says your head is going to explode. There is a plethora of information available to guide you in writing your resume, the problem is, a lot of this information is contradictory. One page, no two pages; include a summary, no make it a bulleted outline; do this no do that! Enough already.
When reading all the articles, suggestions and tips what resonates with you? That is how you do not believe the hype – stay true to yourself. If it feels right to you, go with it. If your career life cannot be contained in a snazzy, condensed one page – then by all means, make it a solid, value-driven two.
No matter what is going on right now, no matter what rejection has come to pass, you are still looking. That means you are still looking forward – good for you. Something will hit, you will find the right job, at the right time in the way it is right for you. Keep going.
By continuing to move forward you are looking for the good. You believe there is something good that is going to come of all this, and you know what – it will.
Take a break from all the negative reviews and advice right now. Give yourself a pat on the back for the things you are doing right and remember these two things:
“The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.” – Lao Tzu
“Put one foot in front of the other and soon you’ll be walking out the door.” – Kris Kringle/The Evil Winter Warlock, Santa Clause is Coming to Town.
As the Founder and Principle of Career Polish, Inc., a national career coaching and practice firm, I am an Executive Brand Strategist, Resume Writer and Career Coach. I work with individual clients, companies, leadership and teams to identify, strengthen and effectively communicate their brand, engagement, commitment and most importantly – their value – by learning and leveraging LinkedIn, resumes, networking, communication, relationship management, presence and influence.
I help people get from where they are in their jobs to where they want to be in their careers.
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