I have three dogs. Three spoiled, indoor and office dogs. If you call our office you might, just might, here a glimpse of them, although they are pretty well trained to know the sound of the phone triggers quiet time on their part. That might just be the only way they are trained.
Being in the office every day and quite spoiled any other time, they see the great outdoors only to take care of nature calling and brisk walks in the neighborhood. In other words, these are not the hang outside all day kind of dogs.
I have not had a problem with fleas in years.
Until this week. We are house sitting and in the evenings they have been enjoying the most beautiful backyard. Of course they are forced to because I am greatly enjoying the overhanging trees, abundance of flowers, soothing sounds of the pond and many sightings of squirrels, hummingbirds, butterflies and more. Forced because these spoiled little things will not go anywhere without me.
The other day I noticed one of my dogs scratching and doing the quick turns on his rear end with a quizzical look. I did not think much of it because this is the same dog that gets frightened every time he passes gas.
He started scratching a bit more. Then another one started scratching a little. Pretty soon it became a scratching party. About this time, while sitting outside, I happened to look down and noticed little black jumpy things lingering on my socks. Uh oh.
As an over-analyzer, I immediately took to Google to learn all I could about these nasty little creatures. Turns out, this beautiful yard is not only a heaven for me, but for fleas, too. Awesome. Off to the store I went – flea treatments for both the dogs and yard. Yippee.
How on earth can such little jumpy things cause such distress? Seriously, they are miniscule; and yet, wreaked havoc on my poor puppies – and me.
Now that we are comfortably enjoying some quiet time in the peaceful oasis, the connection to job searching hit me – doubt is fleas.
When first job searching you might start full of confidence, hope and positivity. After sending out a resume or two the first flea jumps on: a flicker of doubt. It is easy to brush that one off and think it is your dogs getting werided out by his own farts, but then a bit more time passes and another couple fleas/doubts jump on board.
Things start to turn from a mild irritation Maybe they didn’t receive it to an annoying scratch I keep sending them out and not getting a response to a full on infestation Am I not good enough, am I over qualified, am I underqualified, I know I can do this – why are they ignoring me, I am getting responses to jobs I don’t want but nothing on the ones I do, am I too old, do I not have the right experience or education, what is wrong with me?
It is time to get the flea removal stuff. And it stinks, but it is worth it.
First treatment – every time another flea/doubt jumps on or bites, recognize it and kill it immediately. Am I not qualified – squash! – of course I am!
Second treatment – look at your environment, this is your branding materials: your resume, networking communication, LinkedIn etc. Remove all fleas/doubt in those. Make sure your resume is speaking to your value, not your duties. What did you do, how did you do it, how did others benefit – this is the ROI of hiring you that potential investors (employers) want to see.
Third treatment – keep repeating the first treatment while reaching out to your network to convey what you are looking for in a way that they understand, identify for you and connect to you. If they are not in your industry, do not confuse them with industry jargon. Ask for help and advice, yet use what feels right to you. Research ‘flea eradication’ and you will get a multitude of suggestions, but not everything is going to work for you.
Fourth treatment – stop trying to treat things that are not there. Some products boasted that they killed certain other bugs – guess what, we don’t have them in this area. Applying for jobs you do not want is a double whammy. It feels twice as bad to get rejected for something you didn’t even want in the first place!
Fifth treatment – give yourself a flea bath, i.e., take time to relax and keep things in perspective. Hiring is not always a one day deal. There is a lot of time and money invested in finding quality candidates and it is during this process that time stands still. Remember to relax, treat yourself and keep killing any stray fleas/doubts as soon as they pop up.
These little suckers do not start in a hoard, they build up to infestation just as doubt does. Recognize it, treat it step by step and soon your confidence will be back and the right offer will be presented to you.